Real growth isn't the 30 minutes of morning reading or meditation; it's catching a thought or feeling of resistance as it arises in the kitchen and choosing to let go.
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- Moment-by-moment yoga
Treat everyday frustration as the mat: when resistance arises, close your eyes and say aloud 'I'm in resistance, I'm wanting things to be different than they are, I'm being impatient', then…
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