As he gets older, Colin is admitting things about his character that he always knew but never owned, and he is accepting and even embracing them. He has started talking to himself and reasoning things through, such as whether a friend who never texts back is really a friend or a bit of toxicity. He used to think only 'mentally crazy, out in the woods guys' did that.
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- Your flaws can be harnessed
Not every idiosyncrasy you think is bad is bad. Admit and accept parts of your character you always knew about, and you may be able to harness them to become a better person for yourself.
- Talk to yourself
Reason with yourself out loud or in your head: 'Is that a good thing for you, Colin? Is that guy really a friend?' Colin uses it to check his choices and spot toxic relationships.
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